Me no understand

I know I'm not the most popular person within the "online" trans community, but that doesn't bother me as quite frankly I'm not really one of the lads.
What does bug me is the fact of people who get married, can't hack it at being a bloke anymore & expects their partners & families to understand. Total nonsense if you ask me. People who transition make a sacrifice to change what is wrong into what is natural & dragging hetrosexual parteners into potentially gay relationships in my eyes is just pure selfish.
Ofcourse there are those who adapt to such changes & there's nothing wrong in that but the attitude I've been following recently indicates total dominance of attention on the part of the one transitioning & that is what peeves me so much.

On the subject of moaning (must be due to the high testoserone levels still)
I find it distrubing too after a phone callmto my mother yesterday. You see over the past few months I've had the sob stories of how hard done by she is & how I should feel sorry for her. Recently is all about my brother & how wonderful it is to be in contact with him & his family. Now I'm being badgered to go to Scotland for Christmas with my brother, his family & my mother. What a good combination and the maybe's are now a solid no.
Why? because I can't stand my pompus brother nor his domineering wife & as for my mother, well she is just so inconsiderate. Only once she ever asked after me when I was ill. All the rest of the time was taken up with how she could have attempted suicide when I was on that ultimate low & how she was left in debt. Like I really wanted to & still want to hear that Hmmmm NO.
I've actually decided to give familiy a wide birth for as long as it takes for them not to be selfish.
Am I condtradicting what I have just wrote, maybe I am but after so many years of hurt & lies I think I'm allowed.